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timepiececlock) wrote2002-11-04 08:00 pm
timepiececlock) wrote2002-11-04 08:00 pm
Drew
Just called by weird lunch guy. Now known as Drew.
He wants to hang out sometime, but I dunno... we didn't have much to talk about on the phone.
It's confirmed though... prospect-wise, he's a loser. He is 19, has no job, has a car but its being used by his mom cause he drove hers OFF THE ROAD and down a small CLIFF. And he said he was at the de anza campus to enroll, but he didn't.
Anyway, he talks weird. And I found I get tense talking to him. You how some guys (or people), you instantly get along with, and others you feel you have to struggle for conversation topics, and do a lot of "uh...well...yeah..."
He's one of the latter, for me. He's friendly and amusing, but I don't kow how to behave around him. And when I was joking over teh phone he took me seriously, and kept thinking I was mad at him or something, because I replied back quickly. I can't help it! I talk sharp-- I like to argue, even in the vaguest way, and I often find things people take seriously to be funny. He thought I was mad or something. I'm like: "Wha? Mad? Why do you think I'm mad at you?" (I was tempted to add but didn't: 'I don't even KNOW you well enough to waste time being mad at you.') He said I jumped on him (verbally). Im like... "Uh... well.." I'm a snappy-comeback kinda girl, and if you don't liek that, we won't be cool. And when we were talking (while I had sat out to eat lunch) earlier, he said I'd walked off like I was mad. This confused me, because I remember saying (and NICELY!) that it was nice meeting him but I had to go and finish a homework assignment. What, did he think I made that up or something cause I was mad? Why would I? I mean, HELLO! am AT school... where people do things like assignments.
Anyway, I'll try hanging with him a few times... see what he's like. But so far I'm not terirbly interested in him, even as a friend. He hasn't done anythign to impress me much... and his jokes are lame... not even actual jokes, but the kind where he says something like, 'Yeah, I was just fuckin' around doin' nothin'... then laughs like it was a joke. Leaves me kinda lost as to which part was supposed to be funny.
And I'm not being uppity about this. There are lots of people that I find interesting. There's too guys in my stat class who I know equally as little about, and for all I know are just like him... but they interest me when I tak to them.
I dunno... if I'm gonna be friends wiht someone I have to LIKE them. This Drew guy... I don't like him or dislike him, I just couldn't care less, at the moment.
And I think I scared the poor thing off with my opinionated responses. That's ok though... the people I keep around me either arent' scared by my opinions and talk back in kind.. or like my dear lovely friend Katy, giggle at me and totally let it blow over their heads wihtout bothering to argue.
He wants to hang out sometime, but I dunno... we didn't have much to talk about on the phone.
It's confirmed though... prospect-wise, he's a loser. He is 19, has no job, has a car but its being used by his mom cause he drove hers OFF THE ROAD and down a small CLIFF. And he said he was at the de anza campus to enroll, but he didn't.
Anyway, he talks weird. And I found I get tense talking to him. You how some guys (or people), you instantly get along with, and others you feel you have to struggle for conversation topics, and do a lot of "uh...well...yeah..."
He's one of the latter, for me. He's friendly and amusing, but I don't kow how to behave around him. And when I was joking over teh phone he took me seriously, and kept thinking I was mad at him or something, because I replied back quickly. I can't help it! I talk sharp-- I like to argue, even in the vaguest way, and I often find things people take seriously to be funny. He thought I was mad or something. I'm like: "Wha? Mad? Why do you think I'm mad at you?" (I was tempted to add but didn't: 'I don't even KNOW you well enough to waste time being mad at you.') He said I jumped on him (verbally). Im like... "Uh... well.." I'm a snappy-comeback kinda girl, and if you don't liek that, we won't be cool. And when we were talking (while I had sat out to eat lunch) earlier, he said I'd walked off like I was mad. This confused me, because I remember saying (and NICELY!) that it was nice meeting him but I had to go and finish a homework assignment. What, did he think I made that up or something cause I was mad? Why would I? I mean, HELLO! am AT school... where people do things like assignments.
Anyway, I'll try hanging with him a few times... see what he's like. But so far I'm not terirbly interested in him, even as a friend. He hasn't done anythign to impress me much... and his jokes are lame... not even actual jokes, but the kind where he says something like, 'Yeah, I was just fuckin' around doin' nothin'... then laughs like it was a joke. Leaves me kinda lost as to which part was supposed to be funny.
And I'm not being uppity about this. There are lots of people that I find interesting. There's too guys in my stat class who I know equally as little about, and for all I know are just like him... but they interest me when I tak to them.
I dunno... if I'm gonna be friends wiht someone I have to LIKE them. This Drew guy... I don't like him or dislike him, I just couldn't care less, at the moment.
And I think I scared the poor thing off with my opinionated responses. That's ok though... the people I keep around me either arent' scared by my opinions and talk back in kind.. or like my dear lovely friend Katy, giggle at me and totally let it blow over their heads wihtout bothering to argue.