Okay, my mind may be skewed from years of internet use, but...I don't think so. Someone saying, "I love your cock" or "I want to suck your cock"...that's hot. And in my crazy mind, kind of sweet.

Also, I am just wary of euphemisms in general, and especially in sex writing. Just say it--the simpler the better. Things like "hard member" or whatever just end up being silly (that one in particular always has me going, "Member of what?")

I think if one person can love another person, and love their body in all its crudity--call a cock a cock--then that's romantic to me. *shrug*