I was thinking about how badly I want the Obama administration to appoint two women to the Supreme Court over the next 4-8 years, and how disappointed I will be if that number doesn't at least get to 3/9. Or even better, 4/9! But I'm being realistic, so I'm hoping for 3/9, which is one better than the 2/9 we had before Justice O'Connor retired.
I was chatting with another female fan who said "More women are always good," and I replied with this thought, which struck me as sincere enough to me and important enough to me that I wanted to post it here.
Sometimes when I feel bad about wanting more stuff for women, like I'm thinking about it too much, like it's sexist or one-sided to look for the women or the feminine aspect in a lot of things, I step back and remind myself that when we have 51% of everything--maybe even 50.5%--then I will TOTALLY hold my hands up and chill out and explore new options.
Until then, I resolve not to apologize or feel guilty.
I was chatting with another female fan who said "More women are always good," and I replied with this thought, which struck me as sincere enough to me and important enough to me that I wanted to post it here.
Sometimes when I feel bad about wanting more stuff for women, like I'm thinking about it too much, like it's sexist or one-sided to look for the women or the feminine aspect in a lot of things, I step back and remind myself that when we have 51% of everything--maybe even 50.5%--then I will TOTALLY hold my hands up and chill out and explore new options.
Until then, I resolve not to apologize or feel guilty.
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Date: 2009-05-05 03:40 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-05-05 05:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-05-05 06:10 pm (UTC)This isn't me saying that in a political I'd vote for a woman over a man just because of sex. Because I know that there's no gain in electing a few women whose political beliefs keep the total number of women from achieving equality.
But I feel like, on some deep and indescribable level, a conservative woman represents me in one particular way that a liberal man never ever will. Even if I hate her politics, I'll know that there is a person who knows, on some level, where I come from. Representation trumps EVERYTHING. I know many people feel that way about electing/appointing people of color, as well.
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Date: 2009-05-05 07:19 pm (UTC)