1. Is there some adults-only-know etiquette for having sex when you're on your period? Do people do it? Does being on your period make it feel different? Is it more messy?
::waving:: I have sex on my period all the time. No big. Just....if you're worried about the sheets, put down a towel (and you'll both have to shower afterwards). Is it different? Not especially. More messy? Only on the heaviest days, which I generally avoid, anyway, because I'm crampy and irritable.
2. Of women who like pornography or sex fiction (including fanfic), do homosexual women like porn/fic that displays homosexual men? Do they like porn/fic with hetero couples, or only female slash? Do homosexual men like pronography/fiction depicting two women, like het guys do?
Dunno. I'm not a lesbian. As a heterosexual woman, I prefer het smut. But that's because I read NC-17 stuff to be titillated, and two guys? ::shrug:: Just not sexy to me. Some femslash is sexy (mostly because I can relate to the sensations if not the situations, but I don't normally seek it out.
3. Is it possible to break your own hymen (sp?) with a vibrator?
Possibly. But I wouldn't recommend it. And yes, my 'deflowering' hurt. But I'm willing to bet that it would have hurt a lot less had it not been in the back seat of a compact car out behind the snack bar at the local airport, with a moron who didn't have the first clue what he was doing. Oh, but I'm not bitter. ;)
My advice would be: choose the moment and the person carefully. There are many, many, many delightful sexual activities which don't involve actual penetration, and which can help you determine your partner's sexual competence in advance of that first delicate fuck.
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Date: 2002-12-12 02:37 am (UTC)::waving:: I have sex on my period all the time. No big. Just....if you're worried about the sheets, put down a towel (and you'll both have to shower afterwards). Is it different? Not especially. More messy? Only on the heaviest days, which I generally avoid, anyway, because I'm crampy and irritable.
2. Of women who like pornography or sex fiction (including fanfic), do homosexual women like porn/fic that displays homosexual men? Do they like porn/fic with hetero couples, or only female slash? Do homosexual men like pronography/fiction depicting two women, like het guys do?
Dunno. I'm not a lesbian. As a heterosexual woman, I prefer het smut. But that's because I read NC-17 stuff to be titillated, and two guys? ::shrug:: Just not sexy to me. Some femslash is sexy (mostly because I can relate to the sensations if not the situations, but I don't normally seek it out.
3. Is it possible to break your own hymen (sp?) with a vibrator?
Possibly. But I wouldn't recommend it. And yes, my 'deflowering' hurt. But I'm willing to bet that it would have hurt a lot less had it not been in the back seat of a compact car out behind the snack bar at the local airport, with a moron who didn't have the first clue what he was doing. Oh, but I'm not bitter. ;)
My advice would be: choose the moment and the person carefully. There are many, many, many delightful sexual activities which don't involve actual penetration, and which can help you determine your partner's sexual competence in advance of that first delicate fuck.