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Dec. 11th, 2002 07:25 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
timepiececlockSchool-
Took the big nasty Statistics final today. Not sure what I got. On the upside, I got 70/75 on my second major group project, which should give me some decent cushioning.
Still have to write my essay on gender descrimination for my Social Problems class, and turn it in by Friday.
Still have to complete my Fiction Writing notebook, and turn that in.
Expanding my horizons-
I'm listening to the 'Posession' CD (1 of 3) that![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
saava made for Buffy & Spike, and I love it. My favorite new song so far is #2, "Something I Can Never Have" by Nine Inch Nails.
Fic-
Some of my favorite stories were updated in the last few days.
Sang et Ivoire two new parts up, 25 & 26. Always will adore this story, cause its killer.
The Passage of Memory, by Lara Dean Brierley. Two final parts up, and they break your heart in the sexiest, most sensual way. I loved the ending.
When Darkness Falls, by L. A. Ward and Sagnuine. Two new parts up, includin one of the best Spike rants I've seen in a fanfic.
Life-
Questions:
1. Is there some adults-only-know etiquette for having sex when you're on your period? Do people do it? Does being on your period make it feel different? Is it more messy?
2. Of women who like pornography or sex fiction (including fanfic), do homosexual women like porn/fic that displays homosexual men? Do they like porn/fic with hetero couples, or only female slash? Do homosexual men like pronography/fiction depicting two women, like het guys do?
3. Is it possible to break your own hymen (sp?) with a vibrator?
Took the big nasty Statistics final today. Not sure what I got. On the upside, I got 70/75 on my second major group project, which should give me some decent cushioning.
Still have to write my essay on gender descrimination for my Social Problems class, and turn it in by Friday.
Still have to complete my Fiction Writing notebook, and turn that in.
Expanding my horizons-
I'm listening to the 'Posession' CD (1 of 3) that
saava made for Buffy & Spike, and I love it. My favorite new song so far is #2, "Something I Can Never Have" by Nine Inch Nails.Fic-
Some of my favorite stories were updated in the last few days.
Sang et Ivoire two new parts up, 25 & 26. Always will adore this story, cause its killer.
The Passage of Memory, by Lara Dean Brierley. Two final parts up, and they break your heart in the sexiest, most sensual way. I loved the ending.
When Darkness Falls, by L. A. Ward and Sagnuine. Two new parts up, includin one of the best Spike rants I've seen in a fanfic.
Life-
Questions:
1. Is there some adults-only-know etiquette for having sex when you're on your period? Do people do it? Does being on your period make it feel different? Is it more messy?
2. Of women who like pornography or sex fiction (including fanfic), do homosexual women like porn/fic that displays homosexual men? Do they like porn/fic with hetero couples, or only female slash? Do homosexual men like pronography/fiction depicting two women, like het guys do?
3. Is it possible to break your own hymen (sp?) with a vibrator?
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Date: 2002-12-12 02:37 am (UTC)::waving:: I have sex on my period all the time. No big. Just....if you're worried about the sheets, put down a towel (and you'll both have to shower afterwards). Is it different? Not especially. More messy? Only on the heaviest days, which I generally avoid, anyway, because I'm crampy and irritable.
2. Of women who like pornography or sex fiction (including fanfic), do homosexual women like porn/fic that displays homosexual men? Do they like porn/fic with hetero couples, or only female slash? Do homosexual men like pronography/fiction depicting two women, like het guys do?
Dunno. I'm not a lesbian. As a heterosexual woman, I prefer het smut. But that's because I read NC-17 stuff to be titillated, and two guys? ::shrug:: Just not sexy to me. Some femslash is sexy (mostly because I can relate to the sensations if not the situations, but I don't normally seek it out.
3. Is it possible to break your own hymen (sp?) with a vibrator?
Possibly. But I wouldn't recommend it. And yes, my 'deflowering' hurt. But I'm willing to bet that it would have hurt a lot less had it not been in the back seat of a compact car out behind the snack bar at the local airport, with a moron who didn't have the first clue what he was doing. Oh, but I'm not bitter. ;)
My advice would be: choose the moment and the person carefully. There are many, many, many delightful sexual activities which don't involve actual penetration, and which can help you determine your partner's sexual competence in advance of that first delicate fuck.
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Date: 2002-12-12 02:48 am (UTC):blinks: It was a queston of curiosity in physical possibiility you know, not a declaration of intentions.
:) Anyway, thanks for offering up answers. These are sort of the random questions I never got around to asking my mom, and I didn't feel like waiting two hours for on hold with the radio station just to ask them on LoveLine.
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Date: 2002-12-12 02:58 am (UTC):blinks: It was a queston of curiosity in physical possibiility you know, not a declaration of intentions.
Eh. ::shrugs:: Just felt like it needed a disclaimer. ;)
Anyway, thanks for offering up answers. These are sort of the random questions I never got around to asking my mom
Oh, no problem. LJ's a good place to ask - probably an infinite variety of experiences among the women assembled here. :)