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River/Doctor vs. Rose/Doctor
First, and completely separately from the discussion below, I want to address something I've seen mentioned by a few Rose/Doctor fans about River's character and potential future romance with the Doctor. Namely, the idea that he would somehow be with her in the future "out of obligation" to "maintain the paradox" and, the worst, because "he felt sorry for her dying." Granted, only a few--less than five--- people have said that where I read it, but still. OMG people. That is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. It diminishes all the characters involved, it makes no sense with the plot proposed or with the Doctor's character development, and mostly, it's stupid. I hope this is a very small minority opinion in the fandom because it's far, far cry from how I see the Doctor, River, Rose, or any of the relationships therein. And on top of that: why diminish the future potential love story there? It's not in competition with the Doctor's love for Rose. THE DOCTOR LOVES ROSE. We know it, it's canon, it's unarguable fact, whether all fans like it or not. And at this point, nothing can change the fact that one of the Doctor's regenerations chose to give up the TARDIS and live out a human lifetime with Rose. He could have traveled with himself, but he didn't-- he gave all that up for love. Not for domesticity or timebabies, for the chance to grow old with the woman he loves. However, that doesn't mean that the version of the Doctor who lost Rose won't love future companions, and it doesn't mean he won't find an equally romantic epic love with someone else in the future. I hope he does! Because love is a good thing. And if it's not a future romantic plotline but something quite different then that's even better because I think the show needs a long break from epic love anyway.
Moving on to my main thoughts:
But if that happens in front of us on screen, then it will eventually go back to the same problem that Dr/Rose had in the framework of the show: the Doctor can't have a wife or a true love forever traveling with him. The writers went through a lot of hoops to give as much leeway as they could to the Dr/Rose romance, to make it as epic and TWU LUV as possible, and still keep the Doctor as a gypsy who never settles. They had to go to the extreme lengths of twinning him to end that story with as much of a happy ending as is plausible. So how would they make it work with River? And if there is a way to make the relationship work... why wouldn't they have tried that method with Rose's character? The Doctor's smart enough to think of it.
I worry about possibilities of River's return because I am concerned that they'll present the love story in such a way that it invalidates the enormous problems of structure and continuity that the Rose love story faced. If there is River/Doctor, I want it to have to address those same problems, and if it overcomes them, to overcome them in such a way that I'm not left wondering "Why didn't they do that a couple seasons ago? HELLO?"
I hope the River/Doctor romance happens far in the future, not on screen. I like that, because it means I can imagine the romance in such a way that it is in keeping with continuity and prior relationships that Nine and Ten have had with their companions, and older Doctors too. I do hope the Doctor finds love after Rose, but when he does I want it to be written right. I want it to be a compliment, rather than a competition, to his previous loves. And, a bit selfishly, I want it to be with an incarnation that didn't love Rose. That means not David Tennant.
The only way I can see it working within the framework and canon set up by the new who series and its limitations is that River cannot travel with the Doctor. The Doctor can't have a wife or a live-in lover during the show, but if she traveled briefly as a companion then they separated, that I could understand. It matches the Time Traveler's Wife-style diary from the library episode, and in fact would mimic the Clare/Henry relationship in the book, that way. The Doctor could pop in and out of River's life... she on a continuous timeline and him visiting her whenever. Although it's not terribly romantic, it does solve the conflict of her being with him forever like Rose wanted to be (and like he wanted Rose to be.) That's the only way I can see the relationship working... but, again, it's not very romantic, and it's hard to imagine that kind of "drop by whenever" love could lead to the intimacy which was suggested by her knowing his name.
Conclusions? I don't really have any conclusions, but I wish they'd done the River Song subplot after Rose's permanent departure, where it would have felt less awkward. If they ever bring her back, I hope they keep to the in-text canon remarks of him being older, and that the Doctor that falls in love with River (if that's what happens), isn't the same Doctor that lost Rose twice on the beach. I don't think that'd be healthy for him and I don't think it would make the show better to introduce a new true love plotline when it took four seasons to conclude the last one. The Doctor really needs a new friend far more than a new love interest right now.
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Date: 2008-07-12 08:27 pm (UTC)... Did River say that "her" doctor had a different, ie not Ten's, face? I thought Ten, only much older and more powerful, was the one that is going to be with her.
I *liked* River: such a cool and clever woman. She obviously cares deeply for him, but seems much more grown-up and much more on his level of cleverness, independence and flamboyance than, ahem, Rose and Martha.
I liked the idea that she'll be important enough to him that he'll tell her his true name. It means that there's still room for the Doctor to grow and change - still some things left that he hasn't experienced yet.
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Date: 2008-07-12 08:51 pm (UTC)I *liked* River: such a cool and clever woman. She obviously cares deeply for him,
I liked the concept of the character more than the actress, but she seemed to be of the same personality fold as Rose, and Martha, and Donna: a strong, intelligent woman who wasn't afraid to argue with him. Sure she came off as older and more intellectual than Rose... but Martha more intellectual than Rose, and Donna was far more mature than Rose or Martha. I don't know about more cleverness or flamboyance, since I think all the new Who companions have displayed those qualities. The Doctor clearly has a type that Rose, Martha, Donna, River, and even Jack all fit. Which isn't to say they're the same, but that they do have overlapping qualities. He likes bright, vivacious people.
It means that there's still room for the Doctor to grow and change - still some things left that he hasn't experienced yet.
That's almost verbatim how I felt about the end of the episode where he opens the TARDIS with a snap of his fingers, and why I like the idea of River being with a much older version of him. I like the thought that he can change, and grow, and be more than he is right now. I like the idea of new characters that help him grow in new ways, and River has a huge potential to be one of the people in that process.
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Date: 2008-07-14 08:50 pm (UTC)