New guy is nice person whose been receptive to smiles & conversation, but unfortunately I only met him 3 days ago and I only have 3 days left of summer classes.
That sounds very promising. Although, it does seem to be crunch time. I hate that feeling.
Well, feel no need to take my advice (because I very much lack a stellar history with romance)... but I'd say this on the phone number subject: If you offer the guy your number, he'll be more likely to accept, but he may not call or he may be a psycho and call you every few hours (it's happened to me...but it doesn't sound like this guy is too creepy). Also, IF he was a not so nice guy he might prefer taking a number if he was already attached.
But you have more control if you ask for his number. Guys with girlfriends or general creeps would be less likely to give it out. Plus, if you decide you don't like him, it's not such a big mess.
What I've been doing lately is "exchanging phone numbers" it's an easy term and it covers all the bases IF you use a cell phone number or something so the guy (if he's not your type...or overly um, CLINGY) can't harass you too much.
Those are my thoughts. But, talk about the blind leading the blind (not that you're blind)! LOL. I should probably be asking for advice, not giving it out -- in this area anyway.
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Curious
Date: 2003-08-01 09:28 pm (UTC)Re: Curious
Date: 2003-08-02 12:51 pm (UTC)Re: Curious
Date: 2003-08-02 01:26 pm (UTC)See, I think questions like this kind of depend quite a bit upon the people involved... Not that I'm like initiative girl. LOL. Nothing of the sort.
Re: Curious
Date: 2003-08-02 01:41 pm (UTC)Re: Curious
Date: 2003-08-02 01:52 pm (UTC)Well, feel no need to take my advice (because I very much lack a stellar history with romance)... but I'd say this on the phone number subject: If you offer the guy your number, he'll be more likely to accept, but he may not call or he may be a psycho and call you every few hours (it's happened to me...but it doesn't sound like this guy is too creepy). Also, IF he was a not so nice guy he might prefer taking a number if he was already attached.
But you have more control if you ask for his number. Guys with girlfriends or general creeps would be less likely to give it out. Plus, if you decide you don't like him, it's not such a big mess.
What I've been doing lately is "exchanging phone numbers" it's an easy term and it covers all the bases IF you use a cell phone number or something so the guy (if he's not your type...or overly um, CLINGY) can't harass you too much.
Those are my thoughts. But, talk about the blind leading the blind (not that you're blind)! LOL. I should probably be asking for advice, not giving it out -- in this area anyway.